Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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I'm so angry right now i can't sleep.He forced my hubby n my hubby forced me to give up my 2 female dogs n their 7 puppies but now Im about to loose my baby boy.FRUZZZZZZZZZZ............ Y la like tis.That idiot la shouldn't hav merged wit tat freaking ass.Need urgent tips 2 settle my problem pls........
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Maybe you can explain further. What does the business partner has got to do with your puppies and dogs? You can always consider putting at maybe your parents house. And spay all of them so that they don't breed. Pls explain further so we can know wat tips to give you.
Re: [acsyen] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Sigh.tis person wanted 2 join venture in my hubbies f&b outlet.I use to keep my doggies there.At 1st he said he din mind me keeping the place doggie friendly as our regulars r all welcomed to bring their dogs to our outlet n hav dinner 2gether.Every since he joined in everything started changing he was brainwashing my hubby against dogs n my hubby is juz trying 2 keep the peace at the shop.I just wan 2 make him realize tat it was better last time b 4 tat jerk showed up.
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Can u keep the doggies at home? You can have a talk to your hubby and tell him what u think and come up with a solution. Tell him what you think. Keeping peace means coming to a solution together not taking away something. Maybe you can make an enclosed area for the dogs so that they dun roam around.
Re: [acsyen] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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That was part of a promised being broken (the back kennel part).All empty promisses their so much older than i am n they think it's ok if im upset over my doggies.they think they can do wat ever they like without counsulting me when i'm the 1 who's actually running the place.I feel chated n sad n my dogs sence theres something wrong wit me n r shunning away from my husband, it's like their connection isn't there anymore.Tis problem is hurting our not so normal but used 2 b 2 legged &4 legged hapy family.I tried talking but he thinks i'm just making a fuss.His co-owner even passed a remark stating tat they r half mongrels anyway so wats d fuss about getting rid of them.common la d place is 60 feet in lenght r d dogs so tin teh meh?
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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having a real headache rite now.guez my dogs feel d same 2.any other suggestions?should i put my foot n stand up 2 them n prepare 4 a huge argument.do u think it wil make things worst?i really pity my dogs for having a useless owner like me.leaving them in my dads condo or mine isn't n option.so.... geram rite now.wana juz cekik him.
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Well the dogs belongs to you. they dun have the capability to stand up for themselves. it is up to you to now stand up for them or not. dogs has been a part of you make sure you dun regret if you make a decision not to stand up for them. just tell the fellow no point arguing cos u have made your stand. if he is not happy i am sure he can leave or close one eye. just be careful that he don't poison the dogs. and pls spay them so that they don't breed there.. it is also healthier for them. by the way i am from penang too..
Re: [acsyen] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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It's cool tat ur from Penang.Sigh i guez ur rite actually i only had 1 spitz then he brought another female back wit him.the other dog a rotti mix was actually found in a monsoon dicth nearby by accident.guez i never realy thoght bout spaying as i really like dogs and puppies.guez it's d best for them.
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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don't let that bastard get over your hubby. try to talk nicely to your hubby and give him a good point. don be too angry and fruss infront of him that may make him more irritated. don let that ass make your marriage apart. let that ass know that who's the owner and don let him kick you here and there. hope you can keep your furkid good luck! Shekel
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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i guess there will be people that are like that..... really inconsiderate.... just because u dont like something does not mean u can ask other ppl to hate it as well.... really G D I S O B...... ask him to screw himself ler...
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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I suggest you speak calmly to your husband and try not to get emotional, otherwise they will just say you are being 'hysterical'.
Is this 3rd party putting money into the cafe that your husband needs to keep the cafe going?
One approach might be to go from the viewpoint of "this cafe does well because we are unique - we are dog friendly and that is why __(quote number of patrons who come with their pets)___ people come to our cafe - if we get rid of the dog friendly angle then we are just like every other cafe out there and no longer unique."
ALso, if you really are doing all of the work there at the cafe, then you must be clear with your husband - this is your equal partnership business, he shouldn't be able to dictate without consulting you. Tell him if he does not want your dogs to be there anymore, then you will have to find another job that will pay you more $$ so that you can afford to rent a bigger place where you can keep the dogs with you.
It's no way easy to find a good cafe manager who can be trusted. Without you there, if you are doing must of the legwork, they will have a hard time finding and keeping good staff to replace you.
You have options, just don't be 'childish' and tantrum about it, you must be rationale and point out why your point of view works from a business sense.
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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i agree with reneewong on talk to your husband in a calm manner...but then if still he refuses then there might be a problem...if he still insists then you will have to post their pictures and give them up for adoption to better families...the most important thing is that the dogs do not have to suffer...if you can't provide for them, then you must secure a new home for them...better make the move as fast as possible...you won't know what they will do next...perhaps they will just dump the dogs elsewhere without letting you know...make an agreement with potential adopters to spay or neuter the pups upon adoption...
Re: [chrislimyy] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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He jus bought up 50% of d share of the shop to expand it, but tat doesn't give him d rite to act d way he did.I just quit 2day.din wan to hav anything 2 do wit tat place anymore.The dogs r staying in my family's place in pulau tikus i hav a few close friend's who r willing 2 adopt them coz they understand i din hav a choice.their 1 vacination is in 3 weeks time.hopefully by then they will be old enought 2 b castrated.It's better now who knows was tat bastard will do if i'm not at the shop.Let them hav a big headache once i'm gone.
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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hm...you sound pretty upset...whatever it is, try to resolve it between you and your husband...and make sure the pups given for adoption are taken care of properly...hope everything will be settled soon though...
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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well thats y i said dont worry... thinks will work out when u least expect them to..... dont let other ppl dictate how u are supposed to live your life
Re: [khengteik] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Once he's gone all the members here n their fur kids who r in penang or want to join us in penang r invited to celebrate at my place.fur kids r a must.plus u get 2 meet boy the spitz in the pic by the beach.
(This post was edited by kitten_penang on Mar 26, 2008, 6:46 PM)
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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Hi,
May i know where is ur place ? We are actually looking at different plcs to organise our monthly dog gatherings..do let me know where is urs for we would love to have the furkids socialised with other furkids too..
Re: [jessyca_loh] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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it's at batu uban area near n-park.1st i hav 2 get rid of that dog hater walking around the shop.will post n let u guys know the good news once he's gone.then u can choose a date n time u guys n ur fur kids wanna come over.cheers
Re: [kitten_penang] Upset wit my hubby's buisness partner over my doggie.Wat to do?
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don wory even if u wana bring ur fur kids for dinner at n-park cafe it's ok wit me.most of the stalls n workers there love n r acustomed to having dogs around, even some of the malays r ok wit it.i u c a girl runing over 2 greet ur dogs no offence to the owner that wil b me.all r welcomed.
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